Last year we became part of a club, but not by our own choice. Loosing a child is what we have in common with other members. News of Amanda’s death traveled far and wide and we received numerous cards from other parents who lost a child. Recently an older man was in our home doing a property appraisal. Seeing the pictures of Amanda on the wall, he asked, “Did you loose a daughter?” A look of sadness came over his face and he said, “I lost a daughter 20 years ago. She was 24 years old.” A few weeks later he kindly sent me this note. I have been thinking of your daughter and I have an inkling of what your pain is. I am so sorry. Time does not heal all wounds but I believe that our memories are what keep us going and having other children is a blessing. Your kids are so nice. You are fortunate to have them.
We’re healing and we’re experiencing the joys of life but sorrow is still our constant companion. I wonder if life will ever be the same again. Even after the baby is born, we still won’t know how to answer the question of how many children we have.
Winter Scenes on the Farm
4 thoughts on “Wintertime and Answered Prayers”
Congratulations on expecting a new baby! When you are asked how many children you have, you say (#) at home & 1 in heaven!
God does help us cope with the loss. Don’t let the devil steal your joy.
Soooo thankful for the blessing of your new baby ! 😌🙏 Praying with you for the safe arrival .
Thank you for keeping the updates on your precious family . Memories are also a precious gift to us at every season of our lives .
“One generation will tell the next , what God has done “
Praise the Lord, who allows the taking away, but also richly gives!
Don’t let Tamara overdo the speed on that thing.
We’re awaiting the book about Amanda’s temporal life. I’m sure it’s an intense experience writing it.
Blessings from Nova Scotia.
My brother died four years ago. My Mom still says she has three children. You are blessed to have another one on the way. Praise the Lord!!!